As a black woman, born in da north, actually I was born in Ohio and the sentiments there are just barely northern, especially when it comes to black folks, the confederate flag just doesn't bother me.
Don't get me wrong, it's not that I am not wholly offended by the confederate flag (not capitalized on purpose) or that I do not go on high- "I am in grave danger" - alert whenever I see one on a license plate, but I am more concerned about the people and their long-held attitudes against blacks (lynchings, beatings, beating and then killing a 14 yr. old boy for supposedly whistling at a white woman, the burning of entire black towns and settlements, that distinctive "ka-chunk of a round being quickly loaded into a rifle and automatically pointed aimed and pointed at a black person) rather than the flag itself.